There are moments when I think I might be the most loved person on the planet...
My work days customarily consist of
making music, playing instruments, dancing, laughing, and most
importantly, hugging. I spend my mornings surrounded by 0 – 4 year
olds and their caregivers, be it mom, dad, grandma or nanny. In a
mere 45 minutes, we jump and spin and march and fly and jump and sing
and dance and wiggle and jump and wave and crawl and play instruments
and...did I say jump? (We do a lot of jumping. You can't even begin
to imagine how thrilling it is for a young child to learn that he/she
can defy gravity.)
It's a great way to begin any day.
I get to rejoice over first steps,
singing in tune, keeping a beat, sharing an instrument, helping to
clean up – priceless little moments that might be missed if I
weren't pointing them out. Then, at the end of the class, during the
goodbye song, I open my arms, and welcome any and all who long for a
squeeze.
And today, it happened.
There was a mad rush for Ms. Sharon! A
sort of stampede of living weeble wobbles! Twelve little bodies all
walking, crawling, running, and jumping into my lap. It was utter
chaos of the best kind! The pushing, the shoving, the dirty stare
downs, the passive-aggressively blocking all others until you get
hugged for the third time. It was wonderful!
And kids give the best kinds of
hugs!
Unhindered by what is socially
acceptable, they simply hold out their arms and fall into you, giving
themselves over to your embrace. The kind where they lean into you
so completely that you have to stand them back up on their feet. The
kind where they squeeze you so tightly around the neck you might
choke. The kind where they rest their head on your shoulder and
sigh. The kind where you don't want to be the first to let go...and
I didn't.
Though I regularly receive many hugs
over the course of day, this sudden outburst from the entire class
was an unexpected surprise. All day my thoughts have been swirling
down a rabbit hole of how loved I am, how blessed I am.
Have you hugged today?
If not, do I need to come over? Hugs
have been shown to aid in the healing of loneliness, sickness,
depression, anxiety and stress. And the great thing about hugs, is
that while you're giving one, you're also getting one! It's amazing!
It's incredible! It's marvelous! It's hug-onomics!
Go get you some!
To help you on your quest for more
hugs, check out this website on advanced hugging techniques! (Yep,
it's an actual website...and it's awesome!)
I also work with this age group. We are so lucky to have this unconditional love everyday.
ReplyDeleteWithout a doubt! Though I'm neither wealthy nor famous, there is something to be said about the value of their love. Worth more than anything I've given up.
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